February’s history is of being a month of love. I trust you receive lots of Valentines and special attention to celebrate the special person you are. You are unique and special and very loveable. Please believe it. Love is complicated. With so many different personality traits interacting, conflict may seem inevitable. Take heart, it does not have to be permanent. Conflicts can be resolved. Resolve comes from a Latin word meaning “to loosen”. I am good at teaching, but not always so good at living what I teach — and that is exactly why I teach. Teaching holds me accountable to what I say and do. I was late-in-life learning a lot of things ..ingrained in me as a child.